The results we’re getting (and why they’re hard to swallow) 🤔

You are a friggen rockstar. 

Truly. I have zero doubt about it. 

If you are a woman in this world, I can all but guarantee that you have rocked some mega-watt obstacles in your life and lived to tell the tale.

I know I have. 

So I was humbled (and slightly annoyed) yesterday when I had to admit to myself that I might be playing it safe. 

Now, sometimes playing safe is what’s called for. 

But in this case — in the case of my business — I don’t want to play it safe. 

I want to coach more women, speak to more people, and — who am I kidding — make a (better) living doing what I love. 

So when I shared the thought, “I’m not making enough money,” with a coaching mentor, he asked this question: 

What am I doing — or not doing — that’s getting me the result I’m currently getting?

Oh fu*k — is this another growth edge? 

Hadn’t I done enough yet? I wrote a book, I wrote a talk, I’m launching programs and building programs... is there more stretching to do? 

The answer is, if I want a different outcome — yes. 

However... it’s not as easy as just doing more. 

I’m going to have to dive back under my resistance and find out why I am not doing the things I might do to get a different outcome. 

Under the surface, there’s a reason my fear doesn’t want me to change the outcome. 

Just like I ask my clients to do — just like the women in this week’s Artist Accelerator are doing — I have to look at the beliefs keeping me from taking real steps toward a bigger stage. 

Which makes sense. 

All of our fears make sense when we look in the shadows of our past. 

So, I’m going to do that work... because I do believe we are fu*cking rockstars. 

If the outcome you are currently getting isn’t the one you want, ask yourself this question tonight: 

What am I doing — or not doing — that’s getting me the result I’m currently getting?

After I answered that question, I took a nap. And that made sense too.